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Thursday, February 14, 2013

Book Girls Don’t Cry: The Bad Boy!

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Inspired by Book Buzzers, Book Girls Don’t Cry is a weekly feature where we each discuss/vent/advise on the chosen weekly bookish topic. Don’t miss Jenni on Mondays, and Amy on Saturdays:
Thanks to Mel of The Daily Prophecy for suggesting this week’s topic!

The Bad Boy: When Bad… Is Too Bad



Has anyone else noticed a trend this past year? A Bad Boy trend? You know, the bad boys that are literally jerkfaces that you want to slap rather than swoon like we’re meant to be doing? I know I have, and this lady *points at self* is not biting!

Don’t get me wrong. I love the bad boy type, the one who gets rough and gritty (get your heads out of the gutter now!!), but, and this is the important part ladies, underneath that tough exterior he needs to have a heart! I will never understand how I’m supposed to swoon over guys who are complete asses, who control and manipulate, who think they own woman, think it’s ok to demean them, treat them like a prize. What annoys me the most is when books with a guy like this gives out the message that they can be changed–we only need to help them! *eyeroll* I’m sorry, but that is just not a turn-on for me and it will never be. And it’s unfortunate that I’ve started seeing more and more of this kind of character in YA books as of late.

Anyways, I’m on a rampant here obviously, >.<
So let’s see who made the jerkface cut:


 
 Ahem *clears throats*, ok so, here is a direct quote from Venus City:
“The link that bonds us”, he said […] “has nothing to do with mind control, as you suspect. It’s merely a tool meant to make you do as I say”

Yeah…

And one from Of Poseidon:
“He scours his memory for a sweet-natured Syrena who would take care of him, who would do whatever he asked, who would never argue with him.”

You turned on yet? Does this tickle anyone’s fancy? O_O

As for Enclave, the dude is a rapist, a gang rapist, and she begins to for him. *barf*

Now, to be honest, I didn’t even read Fifty Shades and Nobody But Us because I was warned. I doubt I have to explain myself about Fifty Shades. I’ve read enough reviews, seen enough sickening passages from the book to know better. I mean, isn’t the girl scared she’s gonna get beat up for half the book? Eeh no thanks. This book has the perfect example of this ridiculous “but you can change him!” mentality.

And it’s funny because I’m friends with Rhiannon Frater who wrote a Dracula story and describes Dracula as this sick bastard who rapes and beats up woman, using them as his slaves; his vampire brides. And you would not believe how often she’s asked by a hopeful fan if Dracula is going to be a love interest. Eh, no? Gross! When did misogyny become romantic or sexy? When did woman start fantasizing about abusive love interests? Is it the danger? Sure, danger can be sexy, but there needs to be a line!


The wall of bad boy fame!

The bad boy can be good. He can have a heart and a kind soul, he’s simply a damaged individual who’s had a bit too much to deal with. I consider them more like a tortured hero! 😉

So without further ado, here are some bad boys to swoon over!

These all became favorites of mine as well because I really DO love bad boys–my favorite kind of love interest, even. But they have to have heart, ladies, because you know, without a heart, they can just suck it!

So, I know you all have something to say, now, don’t ya?
Le me know what YOU think of this truly bad bad-boy trend!

Also, don’t forget to leave suggestions for future topics you’d like to see! 🙂
You know you love me!
Xoxo, Book Girl!

Book Girls Don’t Cry: Book Hype!

Posted by on 02/08/2013 • 67 Comments

Inspired by Book Buzzers, Book Girls Don’t Cry is a weekly feature where we each discuss/vent/advise on the chosen weekly bookish topic. Don’t miss Jenni on Mondays, and Amy on Saturdays:  

Book Hype: A pro or a con?

We were all, at one time or other, taken over by book hype. A book that is raved about, that has so many fantastic reviews, that you dive into it with such high expectations. And then the crash is hard and fast! I’m sure most of you have a book in mind already, eh?

When book hype is a bad thing:

 –The coulda shoulda woulda

Did I enjoy this book? Barf! No. I was left incredibly let down when, after all the brouhaha, it ended  up being NOT epic. NOT better…

Book Girls Don’t Cry: Mid-Series Cover Changes

Posted by on 01/31/2013 • 113 Comments

Inspired by Book Buzzers, Book Girls Don’t Cry is a weekly feature where we each discuss/vent/advise on the chosen weekly bookish topic. Don’t miss Jenni on Mondays, and Amy on Saturdays:  

Mid-Series Cover Changes!

I am certain I’m not  the only one who noticed a trend this past year or 2–changing the cover of a series at book 2 or 3 or 4. What is UP with that? I used to be obsessed with having matching covers, and I say “used” to be because now I just don’t buy them at all. I rather buy a cheap busted used book and give it away after  reading, than having unmatched covers on my shelf! That would be a travesty, peeps! A travesty!! Let’s see some of the cover changes that…

Book Girls Don’t Cry …They Vent!

Posted by on 01/24/2013 • 28 Comments

Ooh what is this? 😉

So I was debating, I have been posting 4 reviews a week and to be honest it’s getting a little much for me. I can do 4, but I often find I’m always last minute with my review books and I feel like I need more breathing room. So I started thinking what I could replace a review day with that would be fun for my readers (something you’d enjoy as much or even more than a review)–and what is always fun? Venting and discussing bookish things!

So welcome to the introduction of a new weekly discussion post! But there’s more! As you could probably deduce from the banner, I have teamed up with Jenni from Alluring Reads and Amy from Book Loving Mom…